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Enjoy Your Vacation: How to Detach from Work and Return Refreshed

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Summer is almost here and hopefully, vacation plans are in high gear! Yet, what is ideally a time to rest, renew and refresh can become a time filled with stress. Why? Because, though you may be physically away from the office, work may still be taking up precious space in your brain. Projects in progress, never-ending to-do lists, that upcoming difficult client meeting, emails piling up, all vie for your attention.

Here are a few tips to help you detach and truly refresh, physically, mentally, and emotionally.

  1. Plan

While it may seem obvious, take the time to identify the key people who need to be aware that you’ll be out. Ensure that each person has what they need to carry on while you’re away. Doing this at least a week prior to leaving allows time to iron out any questions that arise.

Review what is coming up during your first week back in the office. What steps can you take before you leave to prepare for those meetings and deadlines? Upon your return, a quick refresh will be all that’s needed.

Block at least the morning, if not the entire first day back in the office. Doing so, provides time for you to review what has transpired during your vacation and prioritize what truly requires your attention.

  1. Enable Your ‘Out of Office’ Autoresponder

This simple practice goes a long way toward reducing stress during your vacation. In your ‘out of office’ message, advise people that you will be away and who to contact in your absence. If you work as a solopreneur, advise people of when you will get back to them. This sets a clear expectation that you will not be responding immediately. Most situations can truly wait a few days for your return.

Then, allow yourself to scan your emails, for no longer than 30 minutes, at the beginning or end of each day or so. While this may seem counter to what I’ve suggested above, it gives you the opportunity to scan for important issues and respond with a quick note, if absolutely needed. This is also the chance to delete spam and move emails to folders for review when you return. There is stress relief that comes from knowing that you won’t be returning to an inbox filled with hundreds of messages. The key here is to stick to no more than 30 minutes and then shut off the device.

  1. Set an Intention

Create a vision of what you will be doing during vacation rather than what you won’t be doing. When you focus on the fact that you won’t be working during vacation, you are actually keeping ‘work’ at the forefront of your thought process. If, instead, you focus on what you will be doing, such as hiking, playing games with your family, seeing new places, experiencing exotic foods, sitting by a firepit toasting marshmallows, relaxing on a beach – whatever excites you about this vacation – your mind will be filled with these activities. Thoughts of work will be less likely to intrude.

Despite your best intentions, thoughts of work may still pop up. If that occurs, have a plan in place for how you will manage those thoughts. Pick up a book, work on a jigsaw puzzle, go for a walk. Select a strategy that works best for you to shift the intrusive thoughts to focus on the non-work-related activity.

Final Words

Taking time off is shown to significantly increase levels of happiness and overall quality of life while reducing stress. Additionally, research from Project: Time Off, 2016, shows that “if you take 11 or more of your vacation days, you are more than 30% more likely to receive a raise”¹. So, there go those ideas that working harder and taking less time off makes you more successful at work.

Bottom-line: When are you taking your next vacation? Mine is already planned. How about yours?

¹ Shawn Achor and Michelle Gielan. “The Data-Driven Case for Vacation.” HBR.org, 13 July 2016.

About the Author: Sherry Dutra is a Talent Development, Career and Retirement Coach and Facilitator who works with corporate leaders in small to mid-size businesses, across the span of their careers. She helps them to accelerate business outcomes and team performance, navigate their own career path, and transition to retirement with ease using proven methodologies and strategies that get results. If you would like to uncover and address hidden challenges that may be sabotaging your success, leverage your strengths, and accelerate your progress toward the results you desire, contact Sherry for a complimentary consultation.

Shifting Your Relationship with Stress

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Change is inevitable – after all, nothing really stays the same.  But in today’s challenging times, it seems like we’re on “uncertainty” overload, never knowing what will happen from one moment to the next.

With uncertainty comes stress and confusion, and while most of us would be quick to say that we want less stress and more certainty in our lives, what we really want is less of a stress reaction to what life throws our way.

We can’t choose what happens to us – but we can choose our responses to the situations we encounter.  Let’s take a look at five different responses that people have to stressful situations. As you read, you may want to think of a recent stressful event or news that you may have received, and see what your reaction to that event can teach you about how you habitually respond.  You may have one type of response at work, and another at home, or you may react differently depending on who else is involved.

The first and all too common response to stressful events is to suffer and be a victim to it. People who respond this way don’t take action. Things happen TO them – and though they may complain and be generally miserable about it, they don’t take any steps to do anything. They allow life to control them, instead of the other way around. This way of responding is certainly not recommended, and eventually, it will take its toll on one’s physical and mental health.

The second type of response is to accept the situation. Someone with this response may say “so what,” or perhaps get some perspective on the situation by asking if it will matter in a year – or a week – or even in a day.

The third way to respond is to actually take steps to change the situation – taking action to bring it to resolution (or at least move toward resolution). This is a very powerful response, and one that many effective leaders employ.

The fourth way to respond is to avoid the situation. People responding this way make a decision not to get involved in a situation that they don’t see as concerning them, or upon which they can’t make an impact.

The fifth and final way that people generally respond to stress is to alter the experience of the situation. When we look at a situation differently, the experience itself changes. Changing perceptions is probably the most challenging of the responses, because we tend to be stuck in our own interpretations and assumptions about what’s happening, but it is also perhaps the most powerful of all.

It’s your world, and you can create it as you wish. Remember, what one person sees as stressful, another person barely notices, or sees as exciting and full of opportunity. How are you going to choose today?

About the Author: Sherry Dutra is a Talent Development, Career and Retirement Coach and Facilitator who works with corporate leaders in small to mid-size businesses, across the span of their careers. She helps them to accelerate business outcomes and team performance, navigate their own career path, and transition to retirement with ease using proven methodologies and strategies that get results. If you would like to uncover and address hidden challenges that may be sabotaging your success, leverage your strengths, and accelerate your progress toward the results you desire, contact Sherry for a complimentary consultation.

Safeguarding Your Most Important Resource as a Leader

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So, what is your most important resource as a leader?

One of the first things that might come to mind is the amount of available cash and the state of the investment portfolio of the business. While these are certainly important, would you agree that you can always earn more money, find better investments, and eventually find your way back from a financial loss?

Another resource that might come to mind is your network of relationships. The connections you have nurtured in your professional life are important resources in your success. Yet, even if there has been a significant hiccup in a relationship, you can choose to mend it while continuing to meet other professionals and adding to your network.

Your health is another resource that hits high on the most important list. Many times, there is a tendency to not do as much as we might to protect that resource. However, in most cases, we have the control to make adjustments to our daily habits that will positively impact our health. And, when we have a healthier lifestyle, it positively impacts the energy we bring to our work.

So, if your most important resource as a leader isn’t money, relationships or health, then what is it?  What these three have in common is that, for the most part, they can all be revived or renewed. There is one resource, though, that cannot be revived or renewed.

That resource is time. With each moment that goes by, that’s it. You’ll never see that moment again.

This is not new news. Yet, even though you know this, how often do you take actions that aren’t in alignment with this knowledge? How much time do you spend in meetings that you don’t need to attend (or that even need to be held at all)? How much time do you spend on doing things that don’t contribute to your business’ top priorities? Where are there opportunities to delegate something that doesn’t require you to do it?

Failure to see time as your most important resource, often results in stress and overwhelm. We become scattered and lose our discipline. When we’re in this state, we also negatively impact those other resources. High stress levels wear away at our health. It may make us impatient and short with others which may damage our relationships. Our thought process becomes clouded and our decision-making may be impacted which can lead to financial missteps.

Time, then, is our most important resource.  So, safeguard that resource. Pay attention to how you use it. Where are your opportunities to use it more strategically? Put new habits and disciplines in place that allow you to set and maintain boundaries and act in alignment with your new choices.

Remember, time is the one resource we cannot get back.

Adapted with permission by Center for Executive Coaching.

About the Author: Sherry Dutra is a Talent Development, Career and Retirement Coach and Facilitator who works with corporate leaders in small to mid-size businesses, across the span of their careers. She helps them to accelerate business growth and team performance, navigate their own career path, and transition to retirement with ease using proven methodologies and strategies that get results. If you would like to uncover and address hidden challenges that may be sabotaging your success, leverage your strengths, and accelerate your progress toward the results you desire, contact Sherry for a complimentary consultation.