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Trust: A Foundational Element to Leadership Success

August 8, 2017 By Sherry Dutra 1 Comment

Trust Fosters Engagement and Motivation

Consider your career for a moment. Like me, you have probably had the joyful experience of working with people you trusted as well as the dreaded experience of working with those you had to guard against at every turn.  Now, put yourself in each of those situations.  When did you feel most engaged and motivated?  I can place a pretty strong bet that working with and for people you trusted elicited the greatest engagement and motivation.  Now, let’s turn the tables. How well have you built trust with your team and colleagues?  Imagine the impact of creating a trust based workplace on your quality of life as well as on your organization’s success.

The importance of trust seems to be showing up more often, especially recently, with leadership clients as well as in publications. In July’s Success magazine, there was an article by Melissa Balmain that I particularly enjoyed. I’ve summarized her 8 Steps of Trust-Building below. You can read the full article here.

8 Steps of Trust-Building

  1. Be open
    Set clear and realistic expectations with your team. Help them to see the alignment between their goals and the impact on the organization.
  2. Walk Your Talk
    Reflect on your most important values and principles and whether you are actually living by them. Tie the actions you are taking with the values and principles that drive them. Even when you make difficult decisions that not everyone agrees with, you will be respected for staying true to your beliefs.
  3. Listen First
    Stay present with what the other person is saying. Ask powerful, open-ended questions that elicit insight and are thought-provoking. Acknowledge that you’ve heard the other’s message by paraphrasing what they’ve said to check for understanding. Then, share your own thoughts, openly, honestly and without defensiveness.
  4. Say What You’ll Do, Do What You Say
    As the article states, “Nothing boosts others’ faith in you like doing what you say you’ll do, when you say you’ll do it”. Therefore, don’t overcommit. Be realistic when you make a promise to someone.  This not only reduces your overwhelm because you won’t be working all hours to deliver on time, but also allows you to build trust, through actually following through on your commitments.
  5. Admit Your Mistakes
    If something goes wrong, the worst thing to do is to try and hide it. Instead, share what happened and identify a solution to resolve the situation.  By doing this, you encourage others to be open when things go awry and to use those situations as opportunities to learn and grow.
  6. Be Sincere
    If you are talking about someone else, pretend that they are present to the conversation. Nothing destroys trust faster than wondering whether someone is going to say bad things about you behind your back.
  7. Avoid Stereotypes
    Stereotypes exist for just about everything from gender, to race, to generational differences, etc. Ignore them. The reality is that we all have more in common than we think. Treat each person as an individual and trust will grow.
  8. Dive in
    This is not about blind trust but what is referred to as “smart trust”. Stephen M. R. Covey states that “smart trust means weighing your impulse to trust against other people’s credibility and the opportunity and risks at hand”. Overall, the chances are pretty good that your smart trust in others will be worth it.

Your Trust Building Tips

What trust building tips have worked for you?  Please feel free to share, in the comment section, both those that you’ve observed as well as ones that you have implemented yourself.

About the Author: Sherry Dutra is a Talent Development and Career Coach and Facilitator who believes we each have far more potential than we typically tap in to. She helps you learn how to step into your full potential so you can create consistent, optimal performance for yourself and your team with less stress and more enjoyment. If you would like to uncover and address hidden challenges that may be sabotaging your success, leverage your strengths, and accelerate your progress toward the results you desire, contact Sherry for a complimentary consultation.

Filed Under: engagement, inspiration, Leadership, motivation, trust Tagged With: engagement, leadership, motivation, performance, success, trust

Comments

  1. Kristeen Bullwinkle says

    March 19, 2018 at 3:09 pm

    Trust is absolutely needed in the workplace and it can be increased. You’re offered great steps. I’ve found Patrick Lencioni’s work on trust to be helpful to review. My team went through an assessment and training based on his work called The Five Behaviors of a Cohesive Team and it was transformational. Everyone on our team trusted each other; we scored very high. But we had never talked about what trust meant to us, nor how we could engage in conflict without losing trust. In fact we could build it higher. We could hold each other accountable and have some hard conversations because we’d just talked about what we as a team agree were our rules of engagement. I’d never had a conversation like this in the workplace before.

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